ARE YOU STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM?

     How many of u are still in love with your exes? so why don't u go back to them? why don't u guys patch up especially if he also still loves you. You ask some people what keeps a relationship together, and they go like if you love eachother then there's nothing to worry about! seriously? i say love is not enough, because if it were, people wouldn't break up. How many times have u compared ur current boyfriend in your head if not aloud wiv ur ex?. How many times do you think that sex with your ex is simply amazing! great! and would want to relive those moments if not to experience them once again.

How many times did you fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend and you called your ex to seek comfort and solace, and someone to talk to. When you are in a relationship with ur ex, u think he/she doesn't give u much attention, doesn't call u enough dadadad.... but suddenly he is your ex and he's the sweetest person ever. Ok, people listen to this scenario carefully, you have broken up wiv ur boyfriend who now becomes your ex, and you guys fall in love with other people and start going out. Then you  fight with your current boyfriend, you call your ex who decides to come take you out, maybe to the pool on a weekend, then guess what happens? you guys start making out and all that. You don't sleep together though.How do you call this? cheating? i honestly don't know what to call it, cuz at the moment you were not thinking straight.

 You were hurt and disappointed, and if your boyfriend were to be giving you all the necessary attention, what business would you have calling your ex? Loop holes you create in ur relationships cause ur partners to do things they wouldn't do ordinarily. It doesn't mean they don't love u, they do, but when people are hurt, and they want to feel ok, they do stuff, most of which they are not proud of but makes them feel better anyway.

Do you tell your boyfriend this when things  finally work out and you guys become cool again? i say no! people would beg to differ but that's my personal opinion. Remember though that exes are called exes for a reason, expired is what i say heehehehe, but that is not to say you shouldn't be friends with them or be nice to them. If you guys are really meant to be, if it is 5,7 or 10 years, no matter where it is in the world, you guys will find eachother again and this time, never let go.